What's meant by polygamy?
According to Wikipedia, it is form of marriage in which a man has more than one wife at one time. Well, that 'poly' stands for.
Do you agree of polygamy? why do yo say so?
1. Helping women in need especially the widows.
Well, this is the main purpose of polygamy, which is to help the women in need. Yes. men can help them without marrying them. But by getting married, men can take care of them continuously; financial problems, emotional support and others.
2. Avoid bad gossips and slander.
Human love gossips. They would gossip and gossip without knowing the real circumstances. They just say what they want to say. Especially for person , who's not so religious but claiming he/she is. By getting marrried, people cannot tell slander as the couple has officially bind by a legal relationship.
3. Spread the generation.
Having more wives means men will have more children. It's healthy actually. The generation will be spread. The children can make friends each other as well as the wives.
4. The wife cannot conceive.
barren of women.
and for those who disagree with polygamy, why do you say so?
1. Unfair to women.
Why men' re allowed to marry more than one but women cannot do so? Men cannot be fair. The men will treat their young wives nicely. and the old one will be neglected. Of course, young wife is more beautiful, younger, and fresh. This undeniably causes the old wife to be depressed.
2. Love is tested and tested over again.
Is it true love when we love many people? Lets take an example: a man say that he love his first wife with a full heart. and then when he's with his 2nd wife, he said that he love her. His love towards the two wives is undeniably not the same. Perhaps he love his 1st wife more or vice versa. Men just cannot be fair regarding love. They maybe fair regarding times or money but not LOVE! Polygamy justice is not that easy.
3. Children will be neglected
The father will not have enough time to take care of all the kids. (especially when he has t0o many children) They children will be stressed and feel sidelined by their own father. This result in po0r academic achievement in school and other social problems.
4. IVF or surrogate mother.
Women who cannot conceive can try IVF to have child. This is very effective and many couples had successfully do it.
So, polygamy has its pro n cons. It depends on the husbands attitudes and on how they educate their wives. As a growing girl, I don't really disagree with polygamy. hee
thats all~!!
According to Wikipedia, it is form of marriage in which a man has more than one wife at one time. Well, that 'poly' stands for.
Do you agree of polygamy? why do yo say so?
1. Helping women in need especially the widows.
Well, this is the main purpose of polygamy, which is to help the women in need. Yes. men can help them without marrying them. But by getting married, men can take care of them continuously; financial problems, emotional support and others.
2. Avoid bad gossips and slander.
Human love gossips. They would gossip and gossip without knowing the real circumstances. They just say what they want to say. Especially for person , who's not so religious but claiming he/she is. By getting marrried, people cannot tell slander as the couple has officially bind by a legal relationship.
3. Spread the generation.
Having more wives means men will have more children. It's healthy actually. The generation will be spread. The children can make friends each other as well as the wives.
4. The wife cannot conceive.
barren of women.
and for those who disagree with polygamy, why do you say so?
1. Unfair to women.
Why men' re allowed to marry more than one but women cannot do so? Men cannot be fair. The men will treat their young wives nicely. and the old one will be neglected. Of course, young wife is more beautiful, younger, and fresh. This undeniably causes the old wife to be depressed.
2. Love is tested and tested over again.
Is it true love when we love many people? Lets take an example: a man say that he love his first wife with a full heart. and then when he's with his 2nd wife, he said that he love her. His love towards the two wives is undeniably not the same. Perhaps he love his 1st wife more or vice versa. Men just cannot be fair regarding love. They maybe fair regarding times or money but not LOVE! Polygamy justice is not that easy.
3. Children will be neglected
The father will not have enough time to take care of all the kids. (especially when he has t0o many children) They children will be stressed and feel sidelined by their own father. This result in po0r academic achievement in school and other social problems.
4. IVF or surrogate mother.
Women who cannot conceive can try IVF to have child. This is very effective and many couples had successfully do it.
So, polygamy has its pro n cons. It depends on the husbands attitudes and on how they educate their wives. As a growing girl, I don't really disagree with polygamy. hee
thats all~!!
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